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CONNEXION READER EXPLAINS THAT DESPITE GOING TO LENGTHS TO GET TO KNOW THEIR NEW NEIGHBOURS, MOST DO NOT RETURN THE EFFORT To the Editor, Cynthia Spillman’s response to the ‘problem’ of not
being invited to neighbours’ houses struck a chord. We, too, have lived here for many years but have only once been invited over to a neighbour for a drink. When we arrived we introduced
ourselves to all the immediate neighbours, asking them to come to us for a drink and get to know us – all accepted. Read more: Can neighbour force us to put fence up in French garden? But –
other than a "Bonjour" if we see one or the other – silence. We both speak French – my husband actually taught French. We shop at local shops, eat out at local restaurants. I have
been quite ill for over six months now and not one person has asked how I am in spite of nurses', doctors’ and ambulance visits to our house. We have got to the stage of shrugging our
shoulders, saying "so be it" and simply being polite and friendly should we meet anyone. Rosemarie Palliser, by email Do you have any tips on integrating into a community in
France? Do people expect too much from their neighbours? Let us know what you think at [email protected]