So…what is trauma? Most people think that trauma is an event. You get abused as a kid, or violated as an adult. Someone is in a violent car accident. A soldier sees his buddy blown up in

front of him, or loses a limb himself. These kinds of things are what we commonly think of as trauma. Trauma, however, is not an event, but rather the result of what happens _inside a person

as a reaction to an event._ Specifically, trauma can occur when someone experiences an event that is overwhelming, an event which that person does not have the ability to stay present with.

Trauma is something that occurs, ultimately, within our nervous system and brain. You see, we all have this thing inside us called an autonomic nervous system, a wonderfully complex

at which point we can go about our day. This is what happens in a healthy, well-regulated nervous system. Unfortunately, there are very, very few people on this planet who actually have a

healthy, well-regulated nervous system! What actually happens to most of us, and this is due in a large part to the cultural norms and expectations we are brought up with, is something like

this… _JUMP RAMP CATASTROPHE! (A SHORT STORY)_ When I was thirteen, even though I was somewhat pudgy and not tremendously coordinated, I was really into skateboarding. I liked to _think _of

myself as a badass. One day, I was hanging out with the group of cool kids who really _were _badass skaters, and one of them unveiled his brand new jump ramp. In a idiotic attempt to prove

myself, I decided it would be a good idea to be the first one to try it out. I ignored the intuition of my wildly protesting nervous system, my gut feeling that I was headed directly towards

injury and embarrassment. I didn’t listen. I rocketed down the street, hit the jump, and flew high into the air. At this point, my feet lost contact with the board, I lost my vertical

orientation, and I fell smack onto my tailbone from about five feet in the air amid howls of laughter from the cool kids. I stifled all reaction to the crash. With the exception of the

involuntary YELP! which I let out upon impact, I was silent. I clamped down hard on all bodily reactions. I immediately got up and pretended to be fine. I stiffly walked into the house and

played “Top Gun” on my friend’s Nintendo. The End. Let us pretend for a moment that I _wasn’t _brought up in a culture that says it’s not ok to show your pain, especially if you’re male,

especially if you’re surrounded by peers, especially if those peers are the cool kids. Let’s pretend that those cool kids were actually people with an understanding of how to respond to a

stressful event. In this wonderful imaginary scenario, had I allowed myself to have a natural reaction to this event, a reaction that my nervous system knew how to have and wanted to have,

it probably would have been something like this: I might have allowed myself permission to scream and howl, whimper or cry. I might have curled into a ball and rolled around. There is no one

script that will always happen in a certain order, but the body will always have an instinctual knowledge of what it needs to do. My peers would have surrounded me and held a loving

intention that my body knew how to heal. Eventually, my body have might have begun to tremble for a while, which would signify the de-activation of the stress response, until gradually that

would have subsided and my entire being would have spontaneously drawn in some very deep breaths, which would have signalled to me and my wise, imaginary peers that my system was returning

to homeostasis. I would have gotten up very, very slowly and taken the time to see the ramp and my skateboard. I would have been supported in slowly taking in all my surroundings, as I

re-oriented to both the present moment and my physical body. I probably would still have been very sore and would have needed some type of physical assistance to help my body recover, but I

would not have been traumatized because my nervous system had been allowed to do what it needed to do. Instead, unable to go through the natural reactions it needed which would have enabled

a deactivation of the stress response, my system went into a state of freeze (which I was already predisposed towards due to early/developmental trauma — more on that in the next chapter).

All those instructions that my brain and nerve endings were sending out got stored and locked into my body – resulting in a chronically tucked tailbone, a locked down hip, unhealthy

curvature in my mid spine, and frozen emotions of grief, shock, and shame – there to wait 35 years until I was able to reach all that dissociated energy and emotion through the wonderful

work of a nervous-system-based form of trauma therapy called Somatic Experiencing (SE). I was able to renegotiate that experience and reclaim the energy from that frozen wound, and many

others. I was able to restore regulation to my poor nervous system after a childhood and young adult life full of chronic stress and trauma, which is why I am now a SE practitioner myself.

You see, it’s never too late to resolve past hurts and harms. Our system is waiting for a chance to rediscover its capacity to self-regulate and to let go of held energy that has been

cycling ‘round and ‘round, looking for an exit. We can give it this opportunity by having a firm resolve and willingness to heal, and by providing ourselves with the necessary kind of

support. Now I want to go a bit more into how exactly trauma gets stored in the system, and this is a bit technical but it’s very important information so please read carefully. When faced

with a threat, injury, or some other kind of stressful event, there is a set of procedural instructions that gets written automatically and unconsciously by our autonomic nervous system.

What this means is our system says, “Release these chemicals! Activate these muscles! Run! Fight!” And if we can’t run or fight, we have another, older part of our reptilian brain that takes

over and says, “Freeze!” and then, hopefully, “Come out of Freeze!”. If none of these instructions can complete their cycle they remain in the system — like having the gas and brake both on

at the same time, all the time, underneath the surface. If those instructions are not allowed to complete, if we override them due to social conditioning or fear, or if the circumstances of

the situation do not allow us to complete them (i.e. — we get hit by the bicyclist before being able to jump out of the way, or the trauma happened when we were a baby and we literally

couldn’t defend ourselves or even move much at all), that energy can stay locked in a loop within our system and cause all sorts of problems. That’s what trauma is. To avoid nervous system

dysregulation (trauma, PTSD) and the accompanying physical effects (tics, frozen joints, chronic pain, IBS, autoimmune disorders, cancer, etc.), emotional disorders (chronic fear, numbness,

explosive rage, etc.) and mental problems (anxiety, depression, addiction, ADD, schizophrenia, borderline, bipolar, etc.) the body will need to complete these instructions by letting them,

and the accompanying emotions express through the system. This has to happen slowly over time (because of the complexity of the nervous system and all it’s connected to) and this process

needs to be supported by a knowledgeable witness (which can be oneself to an extent, granted one has the right education and skills). We have come to understand that all the various issues I

mentioned above, in fact almost all physical, mental, and emotional health problems, can be traced back to unresolved trauma. This is because the system that gets dysregulated by not being

able to complete its survival responses, the autonomic nervous system (ANS), is the same system that governs ALL automatic functions of the body; immune function, hormonal secretion,

digestion, barrier keeping in the gut, enzyme secretion, cell repair, breath, heart rate, circulation, etc. The ANS also profoundly affects our brain. When we are sympathetically dominated

(fight/flight) we are ruled by our limbic and reptilian brain, when we are parasympathetically dominated at the extreme end, which is the high- energy response of the Dorsal Vagus Nerve (the

freeze response), we are trapped in our brainstem with little access even to the limbic brain. When both these survival responses are stuck in the ANS on loop mode we have much less access

to our neocortex, the part of our brain responsible for higher cognitive function, memory, communication, creativity, spiritual abilities, concentration and empathy. The world lives in

survival mode and this is what that means at the physiological level – being ruled by our reptilian and limbic brains and by the survival responses stuck in our autonomic nervous system that

make the world and other people feel dangerous, or absent. It doesn’t need to be some big, single event that overwhelms us either. It can just as easily be the prolonged experience of

verbal abuse, or neglect, or chronically stressed or addicted parents when we are young. It can be as simple as never expressing yourself when you are hurt, or angry, or never having

boundaries and always putting others’ needs first. Here is a short illustrated guide that shows how even a commonplace experience like yelling or sparking can lead to trauma. Granted, there

are truly horrifying events that no one could escape being traumatized from, but a lot of the time our trauma comes from experiences that we _could _successfully process and integrate, if

only we had the proper support and education and were able to allow ourselves to be the animals that we are. For example, a robin is having a merry time chirping and fluttering about one

morning. Then he senses a shadow above him. Yikes! There’s a falcon up there about to dive! The robin’s autonomic nervous system kicks in and sends out a set of procedural instructions to

fly, dammit, fly!! Unfortunately, our robin flies right into your plate glass window and falls to your deck, stunned. The more primitive part of his brain then takes over and puts him into a

freeze state. If he didn’t damage anything too seriously, and if you just let him be, he will eventually stagger back to his feet and then start to shake and tremble and flutter his wings.

His body is coming out of the freeze state by completing the procedural instructions (fly, dammit, fly!) that were rocketing through his system when he slammed into the window. He flies off

to continue enjoying his morning. No trauma. It’s not the experience that traumatizes us per se, it is the degree to which we are able to complete the automatic and unconscious instructions

that were sent out as a response to the experience that will determine whether or not we become traumatized. If we have forgotten how to access the natural resources inside of us that can

process the experience, or if we never learned to access these in the first place, or if we are not allowed to by circumstance, or if we clamp down on ourselves to stop the experience

because of social norms and conditioning, the result is the inevitable fragmentation of our system and psyche. Our nervous system becomes dysregulated and we will have a harder time dealing

with future stressful events, leading to more dysregulation and further fragmentation. If we do not have all of our sensory equipment online to be engaged with the present moment, if our

system is busy all the time managing unresolved survival energy, we are less likely to see that oncoming car, or to notice that threatening person or situation, or we may constantly feel

under threat when we are actually safe. A part of our body may be frozen from a past injury, so then we might not be able to get out of the way of that bicyclist, or negotiate that slippery

patch of ice. Trauma that is unresolved will eventually lead to more trauma. A nervous system that is dysregulated is predisposed towards future dysregulation. Bummer. In order to learn more

about trauma and how to renegotiate it and recover from it, something I feel with all my heart that we as a species _MUST DO _as part of a healthy, integrated evolution of planetary

consciousness, I highly recommend reading more on my blog, checking out my wife’s YouTube channel and website, or reading the works of Dr. Peter Levine, the inventor of the Somatic

Experiencing method. Also, for a detailed understanding of the function, evolution and design of our autonomic nervous system, check out Stephen W. Porges, and his work on The Polyvagal

Theory, although one note — his book is almost impossibly dense and difficult to read but there are interviews with him on YouTube that are great. Here are some links…. MY BLOG — lots of

articles about the nervous system and healing trauma: https://sethlyon.com/blog/ IRENE LYON’S YOUTUBE CHANNEL — tons of free videos that break down many many aspect of trauma and its healing

into easy to consume chunks: https://www.youtube.com/c/IreneLyon IRENE LYON’S WEBSITE — more information in her blog, plus online courses that can greatly help you in your process of

healing trauma: https://irenelyon.com/ THE THREE MOST IMPORTANT BOOKS BY PETER LEVINE: Waking The Tiger In An Unspoken Voice Trauma And Memory SOME STEPHEN PORGES VIDEOS…. THIS IS JUST ONE

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