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True story. I had just heard my film won a big award. My phone rang non-stop, friends, colleagues, family all calling to congratulate. My response? ‘Hmmm, ya, I think we got lucky.’ A
colleague called me out for being apologetic about my achievements and not shouting it from the rooftop. I was having an impostor syndrome moment. After reading what’s written below, a lot
of you, specially women, will find yourself nodding your head in affirmative. Have you ever felt like you’ll be found out soon? Exposed as a fraud? Your achievements are not really your
achievements? You got lucky? Who know who else has had these feelings? Tina Fey, Maya Angelou, Meryl Streep, Sheryl Sandberg, Emma Watson. These are some of the most successful, most
talented women in their respective fields. And they’ve experienced this feeling of being a fraud, an impostor. Sheryl Sandberg writes in her book _Lean In_ > Every time I was called on in
class, I was sure that I was about to > embarrass myself. Every time I took a test, I was sure that it had > gone badly. And every time I didn’t embarrass myself — or even >
excelled — I believed that I had fooled everyone yet again. One > day soon, the jig would be up … This phenomenon of capable people > being plagued by self-doubt has a name — the
impostor syndrome. > Both men and women are susceptible to the impostor syndrome, but > women tend to experience it more intensely and be more limited by > it. SO WHAT IS IMPOSTOR
SYNDROME? According to this New York Times article, the psychologists Pauline R. Clance and Suzanne A. Imes came up with the word in 1978. In their paper, they described impostor phenomenon
as an “internal experience of intellectual phoniness in people who believe that they are not intelligent, capable or creative despite evidence of high achievement.” Earlier it was believed
that women, especially those who’d made a name for themselves in more male-dominated bastions suffered from impostor syndrome. Now it is believed the syndrome afflicts men as well. They just
do a better job of hiding it. > Research now suggests it’s not gendered. But women perhaps feel > more comfortable talking about it or addressing it. Dr Usha Girish Talvadkar,
Consulting Psychiatrist, Jaslok Hospital A test has been designed to check if you suffer from impostor syndrome. Try it out here. STUDENTS AND IMPOSTOR SYNDROME A small research project
published in Monk Prayogshala, a not-for-profit research organisation, found that among the 75 women post graduates interviewed, about 8% experienced intense impostor feelings often, and
about 44% of them experienced it frequently. It’s a feeling that is common in women in academia and STEM, both fields largely dominated by the ‘white male.’ WHY DO SOME PEOPLE FEEL LIKE
FRAUDS? Despite being widely successful, why do these people believe they are frauds? It could be familial or behavioural. As a child you felt like you could never live up to your parents
expectations. You were always compared to your siblings. You had to compete for attention. Impostor syndrome is more common in those who are perfectionists. They strive for perfection and
any short coming is seen as an act of failure. This feeling of ‘I am not good enough.’ They also happen to be soloists. ‘No one else can do this but me.’ They take a lot on and the inability
to live up to it leaves them with this feeling of inadequacy. > Successful women have these labels thrust on them. The label of > being a superwoman. She must not slip up at any cost.
If she is > ‘exposed’ she will be deride by her colleagues and her family. > Her world will come tumbling down. Dr Usha Girish Talvadkar Dr Usha says group therapy can help them over
come these feelings. But most people who feel like impostors despite evidence to the contrary, do not seek help immediately. This continued feeling of inadequacy can translate into anxiety
and sometimes depression. Published: 25 Jun 2018, 6:15 PM IST